All I said was--why are you so fat If you don't want to be and all that No big deal--I just want to know Mind your own business--no I don't mean you It's the table over there I think they think I'm being rude I'm not being rude--I just want to know Then she said--you know I'm gonna lose a lot of weight someday I'll get some new clothes I'll change my style I'll cut my hair I'll meet a lot of men I'll have a lot of dates I'll discriminate I'll get myself together And then I said--why not do it now If you really want to be and all that No big deal--I just want to know Mind your own business--no I don't mean you It's the table over there I think they think I'm being rude I'm not being rude--I just want to know Then she said... And then she leaned over to me And she said--this is gonna sound weird But the reason I don't do it now Is I have this crazy fear That I wouldn't know what to do If a man thought I was... s**y or something And then she leaned back And I leaned back And we didn't say very much after that