Imam Efendi Spahic had three children and a grandchild that were k**ed by the shells that fell on Dairam.
Before that, his wife too; as if God had taken her to Him, to protect her. So she wouldn't see.
Here's what I think:
There are neither major nor minor tragedies. Tragedies exist. Some can be described. There are others for which every heart is too small. Those kind cannot fit in the heart.